Nov 14 2009
The Bond That Exists Between Dogs and Children
Kids have always been drawn toward dogs. It seems that dogs and children connect automatically - children are very attracted to a dog's playful nature. Child psychologists have noted that many young people display higher levels of empathy when they are exposed to a pooch within their household. In many cases, kids who grow up with a pet also develop a heightened skill for communicating and interpreting non-verbal signals.
While these advantages are significant (especially for young people), it’s worth noting that the relationship between canines and children is unique. There are undercurrents of intense loyalty and friendship.
Below, we’ll offer a few tips that will help you choose a canine companion for your child. We'll also clarify important elements for ensuring the bond between them remains strong. Finally, we will tell you how to ease the pain your child will feel in the event the dog dies or gets lost.
Selecting The Proper Companion
All breeds exhibit characteristic temperaments; some are more suitable for children than others. For example, pit bulls, dobermans, and chow chows are generally considered poor choices for pets in homes with young kids. On the other hand, golden retrievers, Irish setters, and collies are especially family-friendly.
Some parents mistakenly assume that smaller dogs are more appropriate for a child than large dogs. In truth, a lot of smaller breeds are easily unnerved by young people and as a result, are apt to nip and bite them. By contrast, many larger breeds are extremely gentle and protective of their young family members. They view themselves at caretakes - always lookig out for their well-being.
Tips For Maintaining A Healthy Bond
One of the first things you must do is to establish household hierarchy for your canine. Besides defining yourself as the pack leader, you must clearly communicate to your canine that your child has higher rank and authority than him. Professional training classes can help enormously. If your pooch exhibits any signs of aggression, take action immediately.
If you have a toddler in your home, do not leave him alone with your dog. Dogs are easily excitable and can mouth your children - injuring them in the process. You should also strongly encourage your kids to participate in feeding and walking your pooch. Doing so strengthens the bond between them and helps to clarify the proper hierarchy.
Dealing With Loss
Children tend to internalize their feelings when dogs pass away or disappear. They’ll recall instances during which they neglected or mistreated them. If their regret is not addressed, it can fester and prevent them from enjoying the companionship of dogs in the future. Be honest with your child. Give her an opportunity to communicate her feelings about the loss. That way she can avoid regret.
The companionship between a child and his dog is as strong as it is unique. You can lay the foundation for your kids by selecting the right breed and encouraging habits that support the friendship. You’ll find that doing so can strengthen a bond that lasts a lifetime.
